Unschooling is a learning method that is very flexible takes into account the learning styles and natural likes and dislikes of your homeschool students. It is the preferred teaching method of a great number of homeschooling families - but by it's very nature it means different things to different families.

(Sidenote - although here at RelaxedHomeschooling.com we are very relaxed in our homeschooling we wouldn't call ourselves unschoolers - maybe a better description would be focused unschooling or directed unschooling.)  

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Unschooling is natural method learning, which is based life experiences as well as the likes and dislikes and interests of your children. It is not based on  traditional curriculum choices and/or teaching methods utilized by the public school system. Very little or no emphasis  is placed on things such as textbooks, quizzes, and scheduled subjects or class times. Textbooks are often used, however, but as resource tools rather than structured curriculum.

When you think back to your school days, what do you remember? Were you stimulated by what you were learning? Were you bored with what was being taught? Was learning fun?

It stands to reason that most children (and adults, for that matter) learn at a faster pace and retain more information, when subjects are presented in an enjoyable manner. Simply stated, learning should be fun!

Unschooling is not an exact science, which makes it very appealing to many parents who decide to teach their children at home. It is also appealing to children who are given the opportunity to learn about things that aren’t offered in the local classroom. Your kids will enjoy learning because they're focusing their learning on things that are of top interest to them.

Suppose you have an eight year old who has expressed an interest in learning Japanese or astronomy or genealogy. Chances are slim that these interests would be addressed in a conventional school setting. 

Even though unschooling has few rules and many definitions, there have been several wonderful books written on this method of home teaching. If you are new to the concept of unschooling, take the time to do some reading. You’ll no doubt be surprised at the wealth of information that is available.

Join a local homeschool group and online discussion forums. You will come in contact with many homeschooling families who successfully utilize unschooling methods. These folks will answer your questions and steer you in the right direction, if you are just starting out.  They can recommend things like books, online resources and teaching materials.

Remember, unschooling is the natural way to teach your children. Make learning fun. You’ll be amazed at the way they progress and how much your children will learn!

© Annette Yen 2013